Unchained Melodies: A Symphony of Self-Discovery

2 min readMar 31, 2023


Life has a way of serving up curveballs that challenge us to rethink our preconceived notions of what it means to be successful.

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It was the late 90s, and there I was, a confident engineer turned salesperson working for a multinational tech company and making quite the income.

But then Asia’s financial crisis struck, and I watched my country crumble under the weight of the crisis, prompting me to reconsider my priorities. I felt there was something more to be done.

I took a leap of faith, resigning from my job to pursue a more meaningful path. I went back to school and traded in my slick sales pitch for sociology and social development textbooks.

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This transition wasn’t easy, as my salary in the nonprofit sector dropped significantly. But in return, I gained invaluable experiences, friendships, and understanding. It was a trade-off that my bank account may not have appreciated, but my soul sure did.

I entered the nonprofit world with a sense of idealism, hoping to make a tangible impact through various international development organizations, each with its own challenges and successes.

It wasn’t the utopia I’d imagined, but it taught me that the world is not black and white. People are complex, and navigating the gray areas can lead to growth and self-discovery.

Changing career paths is a wild, unpredictable ride filled with sacrifices and surprises. But if you’re willing to weather the storm, you might come out the other side with a richer, more fulfilling life.

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Life is a kaleidoscope of colors, experiences, and people, all blending together in a beautiful, ever-shifting mosaic.

It’s up to us to embrace the complexity, to dance in the gray areas, and to find our own path through this wild, wonderful world.

When we start our journey of self-discovery, we let our hearts be our compasses, guiding us through the uncharted territories of life with courage, empathy, and an unwavering openness to the ever-changing melody of the human experience.




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